At Sol Counseling & Wellness Studio, we offer compassionate, research-based couples therapy in Solana Beach for couples looking to grow, repair, or reconnect. Whether you’re navigating conflict, trust issues, emotional disconnection, or simply want to strengthen your partnership, our licensed marriage and family therapists are here to help.
We specialize in marriage counseling, relationship therapy, and premarital counseling for couples across North County San Diego, including Carlsbad, Encinitas, Del Mar, and surrounding areas.
What Is Couples Therapy?
Couples therapy is a collaborative process where you and your partner work with a trained therapist to explore communication patterns, resolve conflict, and build emotional intimacy. It’s not about assigning blame—it’s about understanding each other on a deeper level and learning to respond instead of react.
At Sol, we work with:
Married and long-term couples
Engaged or dating partners
LGBTQ+ couples
Co-parents and blended families
Couples in recovery or navigating life transitions
What to Expect from Couples Therapy Sessions
Each session lasts 50 minutes (longer formats available) and may include:
Exploring recurring arguments or stuck patterns
Learning healthy communication skills
Healing after betrayal or infidelity
Deepening emotional connection and physical intimacy
Understanding each partner’s needs and attachment styles
Rebuilding trust and safety
Your therapist may also meet with each of you individually as needed to support the process.
Evidence-Based Approaches We Use
Our clinicians use a blend of therapeutic models tailored to your relationship goals:
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
Helps partners break out of negative cycles and reconnect through secure emotional bonding.
The Gottman Method
Offers tools based on 40+ years of research to strengthen communication, manage conflict, and deepen love.
IMAGO Relationship Therapy
Teaches structured communication to build empathy and break down defenses.
Family Systems Therapy
Examines each partner’s family history and how it impacts current relationship patterns.
Common Reasons Couples Seek Therapy
Couples come to us for support with:
Constant arguments or communication breakdown
Emotional or sexual disconnection
Infidelity or breaches of trust
Parenting differences and stress
Life transitions (moving, illness, career changes, etc.)
Premarital concerns or compatibility questions
Rebuilding relationships after addiction recovery
Feeling like “roommates” instead of partners
Why Choose Sol Counseling for Relationship Help?
Our licensed marriage and family therapists create a safe, nonjudgmental space to explore the real issues under the surface. We bring experience, empathy, and a deep respect for each couple’s story. Located just blocks from the beach in Solana Beach, we offer both in-person and telehealth therapy options for clients across North County San Diego.
Frequently Asked Questions
Q: How do I know if couples therapy is right for us?
If you feel stuck, unheard, or disconnected—or just want to proactively invest in your relationship—couples therapy can help.
Q: Do you offer online marriage counseling?
Yes! We offer virtual sessions for couples anywhere in California.
Q: Do you work with couples in crisis or after infidelity?
Absolutely. We regularly support couples navigating trust ruptures, betrayal, and healing after affair discovery.